My Autoethnographyan educational program of Empathy Education International

How did you become you?

Your story began before you were born.

Family. Place. Language. Culture. Opportunity. Loss. Work. Faith. People who taught you. Decisions you made. Decisions others made for you.

Autoethnography helps you examine your life in context, so you can understand what shaped you and decide what you want to build from it.

Answer the twelve questions

Twenty minutes for a first pass. Nothing to sign up for; nothing you write is kept here.

An autobiography says, “Here is my story.”

An autoethnography asks, “What shaped my story, and what does it help me understand?”

My Autoethnography goes one step further: “Knowing that, what will I do, create, and leave behind?”

The difference, in one table

AutobiographyAutoethnography
What happened to me?What shaped what happened to me?
Tells my storyExamines my story
Focuses on eventsConnects events to context
“This is what I experienced.”“What does this experience mean?”
Mostly looks backwardUses the past to reconsider the present and the future
One person's accountConnects the person to family, culture, place, systems, community, faith and history
An autobiography might say I moved from Mexico to California when I was twelve. I struggled with English, worked with my family, went to school, and eventually became a teacher. An autoethnography asks
  • What did migration mean in that era?
  • How did language affect identity and opportunity?
  • What did family expectations contribute?
  • How did geography, economics, schools, culture, faith and institutions shape the experience?
  • Who told me what that experience meant at the time?
  • How do I interpret it now?

Now the story is evidence for understanding both the person and the world around the person. The twelve frames of THe BIGSPEARs™ are how we widen a story beyond its chronology, one question at a time.

The twelve frames of THe BIGSPEARs™, always in this order. Each one is a question you can ask about any life, including yours.

THeBIGSPEARs

Autoethnography is where we begin

First we examine our experiences in the context of family, culture, place, history, relationships, beliefs, opportunities and challenges. Then we ask what those experiences have taught us, what we want to create from them, what we hope to do with the life ahead, and what we want to leave behind. Four movements, in the order a life asks them:

You build it. We give you the questions.

Nothing you write is stored here. You build your autoethnography on your own phone or in your own Google account, using the apps you already have. Each section gives you the questions, step-by-step directions for a phone and for Google Slides, a prompt you can hand to Gemini or any assistant, and one finished example.

Google Slides templateOne slide per frame, in order. Make a copy and fill it in. to make
Question cards (PDF)The twelve questions, printable, for the kitchen table or a Story Circle. to make
The Gemini promptPaste the questions and your answers; get a first draft of your slides.
Worked exampleOne complete autoethnography, twelve slides, ordinary life. Tamales, not trauma. to write