My Autoethnographyan educational program of Empathy Education International
Look back · Study a life

Their story teaches me how to look.

Start outside yourself. Take one life and run it through the same twelve frames. The forces at work in someone else's story are easier to see than the ones in your own, and once you have seen them there, you cannot un-see them here.

Whose life?

Famous lives

The popular version, and what it leaves out

Steve Jobs, Madam C.J. Walker, José Hernández, Serena Williams, César Chávez, Sara Blakely, Walt Disney, Oprah. Privilege, timing, collaborators, failures, luck and capital, alongside the talent.

Lives from Scripture

Joseph, Ruth, David, Peter, Paul

Studied on From Spears to Hooks, with the text as the source. links when written

Family

A parent, a grandparent, a mentor

Interview them if you can. Their answers become your sources.

Memorial

Someone you have lost

Their biography, written by you. See Remembering Someone.

The Biography Portrait

Five questions, then the twelve frames if you want to go further.

  • What happened?
  • Who shaped them?
  • What context mattered: place, era, money, institutions, beliefs?
  • What did they overcome, create, lose, inherit, or pass on?
  • What does the popular version of their story leave out?

The lesson is never “if they did it, you can too.” It's that a life is constructed from events, relationships, skills, circumstances, decisions and opportunities, and so is yours. Inspiration is not causation; a pattern is not a guarantee.

Every portrait on this site ends the same way: You studied their story. Now turn the frames toward yours. Start my autoethnography →

Editorial rule for the famous lives: names in titles are fine, no implied endorsement, and only images we own or that are licensed or public domain.